Alright we all know that weddings are gay - happy :) But that's not exactly what I mean here. Last week, there was a wedding held in Sydney...but there was no bride with a long white dress, 'cos it was between two prominent men. It was aired on TV and radio for the first time and alot of publicity was given to it, amidst rejection and protesting from some anti-gay groups and many viewers. Those who oppposed to this wedding believed that marriage should only be between a man and a woman as per tradition, and that that's how children are supposed to come into this world. They also stated that marriage should not be marketed as a same sex union and that this should not be exposed to younger generation in a way that the tradition is affected. The gay and lesbian rights' supporters stated that Marriage should be allowed for any 2 people who love and care for each other irrespective of their sex. What they said was that after all, marriage means loving and caring for one another and it should not matter whether it's between 2 men, 2 women or a man and a woman. They also stated that children are and can be well-brought up by gay and lesbians and it's not an issue to even consider.While all this was being argued on TV, I was wondering how I used to think about homosexuality before - I'll be honoest, I used to think it's wrong and against human nature - but not anymore. Because I'm more matured now and I have learnt to accept people for who they are, not for how they choose to love and live. While I'm as straight as Chinese hair lol, I respect another's sexual preference be it gay or bi or whatever. It's purely personal and I have no right to judge anyone on that. Honestly if 2 people love and care for each other unconditionally, then that's what a true union is all about, whether they have a wedding or not. Besides, some people don't even find true love in their whole life, so if they do find Love even in an unconventional way, why not just let them be? It's their life, not your's so you don't have a say in it. I know that certain religions don't approve of gay marriages, but it's almost like being vegetarian or not - it's really your choice, isn't it. About children being raised by same-sex parents, I have no idea what it would be to grow up like that so I don't think I can speak for someone else. Maybe it's good, maybe it's bad or maybe it's even better than having a woman and a man shouting at each other all their life while the children suffer. What matter for children's wellbeing are rational parents not just a mother and a father. And there are many single parents who raise children alone, so why not have 2 dads or 2 mums :) What really matters is whether true Love exists...whether the trust and faith in each other exist...whether together they can raise good kids. It should not bother me how the other person chooses to live as long as it does not harm me or anyone else. What do you think about gay marriages? I also ask you another question - What would you say/do if your loved-one (be it brother, sister, daugher, son, best-friend or anyone at all) came upto you and told you they were homosexual? Be honest with your answers please, thanks :)
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Excuse me Saby, how can u use my work w.o. my permission?
Keshi.
Gay marriages should be allowed. There is nothing to oppose or revolt.As far as reproduction is concerned,there are plenty of bi's.Instead of worrying about natural process of mating between opposite sexes,there are plenty of homeless kids who need love.Adopt them.Gay population is the minuscule of the totality.So the answer is unanimous that there is nothing to make a big fuss out of it.
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-Minnie Mouse
1. Homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control are not natural.
2. Heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. Infertile couples and old people cannot get legally married because the world needs more children.
3. Obviously gay parents will raise gay children because straight parents only raise straight children.
4. Straight marriage will be less meaningful, since Britney Spears's 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.
5. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and it hasn't changed at all: women are property, Blacks can't marry Whites, and divorce is illegal.
6. Gay marriage should be decided by the people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of minorities.
7. Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are always imposed on the entire country. That's why we only have one religion in America.
8. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall.
9. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage license.
10. Children can never succeed without both male and female role models at home. That's why single parents are forbidden to raise children.
11. Gay marriage will change the foundation of society. Heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven't adapted to cars or longer lifespans.
12. Civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a "separate but equal" institution is always constitutional. Separate schools for African-Americans worked just as well as separate marriages will for gays & lesbians.
The above thing hopes to show how ludicrous the arguments against gay marriage really are, by explicitly stating the arguments... and letting the obvious conclusions from these arguments follow, which are clearly not accurate.
i'd probably freak at first but then i'd probably be ok wid it
Saby, by now I wouldn't find it a bit weird even if you took off your wig and revealed that you had a giant asshole at the top of your head.Same with Gay marriages.We need acceptance of it so that there is less freaking out from people like the Michella above.
~~lights a ciggie
The above is me,Carino.shhh
OUCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
u didnt have to light yr ciggie on my bald pate
.....if Julia were here she wud have freaked out
I've known homosexuals since I was prebuscent. It doesn't faze me. To each his own and like you say, just let people love each other.
v need diffy's opinion on dis
wats yr opinionion Diffy ?
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ahem..do u want me to tell all?
No holds barred
give it me
gimme yr best shot
whats with the dot thing??If I remember ,u have got a dot there.*winks*
diffy
Copy Cat ... ooo ... Saby is a copy cat! :P
LOOK MA, I TOLD YOU I WAS STRAIGHT
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I won't sabiness thanx shabby!!!
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fuck u keshit
I'm dumb alright.
SABY,
This is the FIRST time I ever seen you writing something so good and in the most polite way.
Good grief man… you have grown up to be a mature old man.
Keep it up, “honey” – in the gayest way!
Hahahahhaa
At first I thought I was in a wrong blog.. I had to check 3 times to confirm that this blog belongs to SABY!
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