"Happy childhood" notwithstanding, most of us are living out the NOT OK feelings of a defenseless CHILD wholly dependent on OK others for stroking and care.
By the third year of life, says Dr. Harris, most of us have made the unconscious decision I'M NOT OK-YOU'RE OK.
This negative Life Position, shared by successful and unsuccessful people alike, contaminates our rational ADULT potential -- leaving us vulnerable to the inappropriate, emotional reactions of our CHILD and the uncritically learned behavior programmed into our PARENT.
In personal Transactions, NOT OK people resort to harmful withdrawal, rituals, activities, pastimes, and games for getting needed strokes while avoiding painful intimacy with people they see as OK.
Dr. Thomas A. Harris's pioneering work in Transactional Analysis has had a fundamental impact on our understanding of interpersonal behavior. In showing us how to make the conscious decision I'M OK-YOU'RE OK, he has helped millions of despairing people find the freedom to change, to liberate their ADULT effectiveness, and to achieve joyful intimacy with the people in their lives.
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yep u should apply this theory to urself Saby..cos all u ever see is 'Im ok..they r not'
:)
Keshi.
claps
Saby is wise old man
mwahhhhh
I know I used to hate people who would feel they had to rub in that I didnt have apartner, and you know i honestly dnt want to do that now, but what I do want to do is give a bit of advice to all of you here about something cool that i found. http://www.theonlyplacetobe.info/mikoo is were i met my first partner in almost 3 yrs, and well it only took two weeks, so you could say i was happy ;). Check em out if you're like me :)
How much it sucks that this is the truth!
How much more it sucks that I embody it!
Peace,
Cheesy
sabty will u strip for me?;)
I want to seeeeee u nudeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I'M OK,YOU ARE SEXY
Keshi tinks her value is decided by the number of comments that she receives.
Shame on the BIG and old wooman
Keshi tinks her value is decided by the number of comments that she receives.
Shame on the BIG and old wooman
Keshi tinks her value is decided by the number of comments that she receives.
Shame on the BIG and old wooman
Keshi tinks her value is decided by the number of comments that she receives.
Shame on the BIG and old wooman
Keshi tinks her value is decided by the number of comments that she receives.
Shame on the BIG and old wooman
bytch has become a philosophical
salvation nshit
she has no work I TELL YA folks
the bytch is so educated
but has she learnt anything outta it
ignorant fuck
when people already assume that you're a dumb, ignorant fuck, and you try to prech other people on lyfe, and you do it in an ignorant, mentally-retarded manner, it just makes you look like a dumber, ignorant fuck.
Lyrics for Keshit
Fuck the bullshit, it’s time to throw down
Fuck the bullshit, it’s time to throw down
Fuck the bullshit, it’s time to throw down
Just fuck the bullshit, and get with it
Its time to throw down, so I said it
Words of wisdom, thatll keep y’all guessing
Cause I’m tired of playing and I’m tired of messin around
With all y’all suckers, and stupid mother fuckers
I kick in your teeth, the condescending frown
Fuck the bullshit, it’s time to throw down
Just forget the dumb stuff, I call your bluff
Cause I’m a big stick and you’re a cream puff
And you hate it, and get frustrated
No tellin just how long you waited
I don’t give a damn, it’s time to throw down
Just fuck the bullshit, and get with it
sobz sobz @ Cheesy
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
loved da lyrics :)
@anony 7:43 above
I had a rare opportunity to see saby in the nude
were u nude when u saw me in the nude ?
wat happened next ?
good post
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